HELLO DEAR ONE

I hear you, it’s sometimes hard to find our bearings amid a sea change

Cumberland Celebrant Brooke Rochette

We all need a North Star, a wayfinder that will help lift the fog and light the path to greater connection, meaning, heart-centered living, and earthly belonging. The good news: that North Star lies within your own story, waiting to be revealed in the poetic threads of your life.  My personal journey is one of passion for story-tracking and celebrating life with heart. Let’s get to know each other and see how we can illuminate your life as poem, finding the beauty and power in the underlying currents of your life as you navigate change; and then, discover the right gestures to express your inner world through the embodied poetry of ritual.

MY STORY

Celebrating wildness within and without has been one of my major life threads

It keeps showing up under various disguises, enticing me to look under stones with my little ones, walk the same forest path a thousand times out of love, expand my bookshelf on all things wild to cracking capacity, fiercely protect moments of silence and stillness in my days, and drop to my knees in an unapologetic reverence for nature’s abundant gifts (including dark chocolate…).

The deeper yearning that keeps my gaze turned towards both outer wilderness and our inner wildness, is the desire for intimacy with this living, breathing, beautiful world. This desire for intimacy finds its way into my partnership, motherhood, and friendships, my sense of the sacred, my love of the places I inhabit, all the way to my grandmother’s teacup which I cradle every morning in my hands. When I go to the ocean, I want to visit it with all my senses awake, with my heartstrings open to the ocean’s song, with my imagination dancing with its mysterious presence, and my mind tuned to gratitude for its abundance, beauty, and grandeur: each day, each moment, an opportunity to say “thank you”. Each day, each moment, an opportunity to breathe in “sacred” and breathe out “sacred” and remember there is so much to celebrate.  Ritual and ceremony have been hallmarks in my personal and professional life to create the context for this kind of intimacy to grow and take root as a way of being in this precious world.  Every day, I seek to fall in love with the world at my fingertips, and to embrace poet Jalal al-Din Rumi’s invitation to “let the beauty we love be what we do”, finding my own way to “kneel and kiss the ground.”

READ MORE ABOUT HOW RITUAL AND CEREMONY HAVE SHAPED MY PERSONAL AND PROFESSIONAL LIFE

*Disclaimer ~ The ritual and ceremony work offered through Fire & Honey Ceremonies is not therapy or counselling; as such, it is in no way intended to replace or substitute professional psychological and health care advice.

“Brooke facilitates from her heart, her joy, years of experiential training and living by her calling.”

– Marnie Roper, Spiritual Health Practitioner

Credentials

Masters Degree in Transpersonal Psychology (Ecopsychology)

Certified in Wild Mind personal development with Animas Valley Institute

Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant

Certificate in Education for Sustainability for Adults

Diploma of Acupuncture (currently completing at Pacific Rim College)

Year-long immersive training in Storytelling and Creative Writing (UK)

Some of the lineages and apprenticeships informing my work

Before focusing more deeply on ceremony and ritual for life transitions and passages, I worked for a decade in the world of organic gardening/farming, permaculture design, and European herbalism, which deeply affected the way I relate to the world.  The vast multitude of places and wild beings to whom I apprenticed continue to shape my work, as have the amazing human mentors, friends and colleagues, and abundance of myths and stories, books and poems that have touched my heart and provided guidance.  My approach is also informed by my ongoing involvement and study in the holistic health sciences, as well as my engagement with the following teachers and trainings:

Francis Weller Programs & Grief Ritual Leadership Training

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Certificate in Grief Work
Certificate in Holding Space for Abortion
Certificate in Holding Space for Pregnancy Loss
Understanding Trauma for Birth & Death Doulas
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The Work that Reconnects Trainings & Workshops

CELEBRATING DIVERSITY

Through diversity, the world is made more beautiful, complex, abundant and resilient. And so it is with the diversity of our stories and our ways of being in and of this world. It is a privilege for me to work with your authentic self and I will strive to be guided by my sensitivity to your wholeness – mental, emotional, physical, social, cultural, and spiritual. I recognize that our unique expression is embedded in multiple identities, just as it is embedded in a wider web of other-than-human beings. I embrace the opportunity to constantly learn how to live in right relationship within these webs.

I also acknowledge the systemic racism and oppression that is woven into the fabric of our society and our cultural identities. As such, I recognize that I have been brought up in colonial mindset and have been at the receiving end of privileges afforded by my place as a settler of European ancestry on this land. I commit to learning to recognize and dismantle these mindsets within myself, and to live in right relationship with the peoples whose historical relationships with the land continue to this day. I know that I make mistakes, and vow to navigate this awkward and uncomfortable space and not back away; in this spirit, I invite feedback so that I may continue to learn and grow.

I actively cultivate my hope for social justice, by doing the following:

  • support local First Nations initiatives through donations
  • learn about local indigenous peoples and their history with this land
  • plant indigenous species in my backyard and participate as a volunteer gardener in the neighbourhood native plant gardens and habitat restoration projects
  • strive to never appropriate indigenous people’s sacred ways, but rather to continually explore my own unique way of kneeling to kiss the ground
  • participate in my children’s school activities that promote diversity, inclusion, and social justice
  • continue to learn to create a more inclusive and safe space in my work and in my personal interactions with the multi-faceted diversity in our human communities
  • nurturing a shared sense of the sacredness of the web of life and our place in it, and coming into ever greater intimacy, opening myself to a wild love affair with the myriad beings of this land – of the mineral, plant, insect, animal, and elemental realms – acknowledging their unique forms of intelligence and their deep-time origins

I respectfully acknowledge my place as a settler on the stolen Indigenous lands and Coast Salish territories of the Lək̓ʷəŋən/Lekwungen (Songhees and Esquimalt) and W̱SÁNEĆ ((SȾÁUTW/ Tsawout, W̱JOȽEȽP/ Tsartlip, BOḰEĆEN/Pauquachin, WSIḴEM/ Tseycum, MÁLEXEȽ/ Malahat) First Nations, whose timeless relationships with the land continue to this day.  As a guest on this land, may my deep respect and reverence be enacted through my relationship with the rightful stewards and traditional keepers of this land, with the Earth and Waters, with all living entities and sentient beings, and with the spirit guardians of this place.