HELLO DEAR ONE

I hear you, it’s sometimes hard to find our bearings amid a sea change

Cumberland Celebrant Brooke Rochette

We all need a North Star, a wayfinder that will help lift the fog and light the path to greater connection, meaning, heart-centered living, and earthly belonging. The good news: that North Star lies within your own story, waiting to be revealed in the poetic threads of your life.  My personal journey is one of passion for story-tracking and celebrating life with heart. Let’s get to know each other and see how we can illuminate your life as poem, finding the beauty and power in the underlying currents of your life as you navigate change; and then, discover the right gestures to express your inner world through the embodied poetry of ritual.

MY STORY

Celebrating wildness within and without has been one of my major life threads

It keeps showing up under various disguises, enticing me to look under stones with my little ones, walk the same forest path a thousand times out of love, expand my bookshelf on all things wild to cracking capacity, fiercely protect moments of silence and stillness in my days, and drop to my knees in an unapologetic reverence for nature’s abundant gifts (including dark chocolate…).

The deeper yearning that keeps my gaze turned towards both outer wilderness and our inner wildness, is the desire for intimacy with this living, breathing, beautiful world. This desire for intimacy finds its way into my partnership, motherhood, and friendships, my sense of the sacred, my love of the places I inhabit, all the way to my grandmother’s teacup which I cradle every morning in my hands. When I go to the ocean, I want to visit it with all my senses awake, with my heartstrings open to the ocean’s song, with my imagination dancing with its mysterious presence, and my mind tuned to gratitude for its abundance, beauty, and grandeur: each day, each moment, an opportunity to say “thank you”. Each day, each moment, an opportunity to breathe in “sacred” and breathe out “sacred” and remember there is so much to celebrate.  Ritual and ceremony have been hallmarks in my personal and professional life to create the context for this kind of intimacy to grow and take root as a way of being in this precious world.

READ MORE ABOUT HOW RITUAL AND CEREMONY HAVE SHAPED MY PERSONAL AND PROFESSIONAL LIFE

MY LOVE AFFAIR WITH CEREMONY

*Disclaimer ~ The ritual and ceremony work offered through Fire & Honey Ceremonies is not therapy or counselling; as such, it is in no way intended to replace or substitute professional psychological and health care advice.

“Brooke facilitates from her heart, her joy, years of experiential training and living by her calling.”

– Marnie Roper, Spiritual Health Practitioner

Credentials

Masters Degree in Transpersonal Psychology (Ecopsychology) (Naropa University, CO)

Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant (Celebrant Foundation & Institute, NJ)

Wild Mind Guide in training (Nature-based personal development) (Animas Valley Institute, CO)

Certificate in Education for Sustainability for Adults (Schumacher College, UK)

Ecopsychology Courses – 2 week-long immersions (Schumacher College, UK)

Storytelling and Creative writing – Year-long full-time immersion program (UK)

Permaculture Design Certificate and Teacher Training (BC & UK)

Bachelor’s Degree in Kinesiology, Health & Wellness (Simon Fraser University, BC)

Continuing Education

My approach is informed and shaped by my ongoing involvement and study with the following teachers and trainings:

Francis Weller Programs
The Work that Reconnects Trainings & Workshops
Sarah Kerr’s Soul Passages Courses
Animas Valley Institute Intensives & Trainings
Certificate in Grief Work
Certificate in Holding Space for Abortion

Certificate in Holding Space for Pregnancy Loss

Indigenous Land Protocol in Medicinal Harvesting Course

“Beyond They/Them/Theirs” Course with the Trans-Affirming Therapists Academy

Professional Memberships & Associations

CELEBRATING DIVERSITY

Through diversity, the world is made more beautiful, complex, abundant and resilient. And so it is with the diversity of our stories and our ways of being in and of this world. It is a privilege for me to work with your authentic self and I will strive to be guided by my sensitivity to your wholeness – mental, emotional, physical, social, cultural, and spiritual. I recognize that our unique expression is embedded in multiple identities, just as it is embedded in a wider web of other-than-human beings. I embrace the opportunity to constantly learn how to live in right relationship within these webs.

I also acknowledge the systemic racism and oppression that is woven into the fabric of our society and our cultural identities. As such, I recognize that I have been brought up in colonial mindset and have been at the receiving end of privileges afforded by my place as a settler of European ancestry on this land. I commit to learning to recognize and dismantle these mindsets within myself, and to live in right relationship with the peoples whose historical relationships with the land continue to this day. I know that I make mistakes, and vow to navigate this awkward and uncomfortable space and not back away; in this spirit, I invite feedback so that I may continue to learn and grow.

I actively cultivate my hope for social justice, by doing the following:

  • support local First Nations initiatives through donations, and by signing up my home and business to the Reciprocity Trust (https://www.reciprocitytrusts.ca)
  • learn about local indigenous peoples and their history with this land
  • plant indigenous species in my backyard and participate as a volunteer gardener in the neighbourhood native plant gardens and habitat restoration projects
  • strive to never appropriate indigenous people’s sacred ways, but rather to continually explore my own unique way of kneeling to kiss the ground
  • participate in my children’s school activities that promote diversity, inclusion, and social justice, such as being a part of the Moms Against Racism group
  • continue to learn and train, to create a more inclusive and safe space in my work and in my personal interactions with BIPOC, queer, trans and LGBTQIA2+ people
  • nurturing a shared sense of the sacredness of the web of life and our place in it, and coming into ever greater intimacy, opening myself to a wild love affair with the myriad beings of this land – of the mineral, plant, insect, animal, and elemental realms – acknowledging their unique forms of intelligence and their deep-time origins

MY PERSONAL SELF-LOCATION PRACTICE

I grew up on the Burrard Inlet near Deep Cove in North Vancouver, on the traditional territories of the Tsleil-Waututh Nation, Peoples of the Inlet, and the Squamish Nations. These are the lands where I spent the first 20 years of my life, my parents having settled here from Quebec and Switzerland.

In my mid-twenties I moved to Europe for a decade to unearth my European and Swiss roots, before coming back to Vancouver Island out of love and longing for this place that shaped me, grew me, nested its impressions deep in my heart and psyche. I now live on the traditional territories of the Lekwungen-speaking people of the Esquimalt and Songhees Nations, and the SENĆOŦEN-speaking WSÁNEĆ communities of Wjołełp (Tsartlip), StáutU (Tsawout) and Wsikem (Tseycum), Málexeł (Malahat) and Bokećen (Pauquachin) First Nations. I live here with my husband from Switzerland, and our two children, born in Switzlerand and raised on Vancouver Island.

I acknowledge my Swiss, French, Italian and Romanian ancestry, as well as my lineage through marriage with my husband’s Swiss, French and Scottish ancestry. As a family, we create our home “here and now” in full acknowledgment and respect for the deep-time history of this place. I consider myself a learner to these particular lands, and also consider myself a member of this greater Earth community. Each time I engage in ritual on these lands, I request permission and offer drops of St. John’s wort, a gift of the mountains and sun from my Swiss ancestry, offered in the spirit of joy held in healing fire within this plant.

May this feeling of deep respect, love, and reverence be enacted through my relationship to the land, air, waters, sun and moon, to all living entities and sentient beings, and to the people, ancestors and spirits of this place. May my actions be infused with ever-deepening integrity with life on Earth so I may contribute to the resurgence of a life-enhancing, life-celebrating culture. So may it be.

WORK WITH ME
I respectfully acknowledge my place as a settler on the traditional territories of the  Lək̓ʷəŋən (Lekwungen) peoples.
I commit to learning to live in right relationship with the Songhees, Esquimalt, and W̱SÁNEĆ peoples whose historical relationships with the land continue to this day,  as well as with the myriad other beings that inhabit this place.